Life Grid - how it should be:

Hobby

Sewing, reading, courses, starting college, cooking, swimming, work experience, riding, socialising, exercise

Family

Phone more often, spend more time with them, visit/go shopping with them, more support, help with children.

Leisure

Drinking, group meetings, bowling, clubs, swimming, bingo once a week

Me time

Peaceful life, go out more, have one day a week to ourselves, have a life

Friends

Spend more time with them, meet new ones, and keep in touch.  Phone, write, visit, and track down old friends.  Have a reunion

Home

How I want it.  More peaceful.  Want kids to feel safe and secure in own home, not just a house

Work

Join a course, look for work, go to college, do voluntary work.  Volunteer in refuge.

Relationship

Have as many as you like.  Nobody to answer to.  Do as you please.  Meet someone really nice who will respect you not abuse you.  Not tied down to one man.  

Total control!

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