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Types of Behaviour |
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There
are three different types of behaviour: Aggressive,
- shouting, hitting, bullying, demanding, putting people down, swearing,
telling people what to do, throwing things, showing off, bad moods,
butting in, bossy, ignoring, intimidating etc…. This
is the way that Domestically Violent people behave most of the time. Passive,
not asking for/doing what you want, not wanting to offend, worrying about
others feelings too much, worrying about being contradicted, saying yes
when wanting to say no, lying, saying sorry all the time even when it’s
not your fault, keeping anger inside etc… This
is the way most domestically violated people behave. Assertive,
being clear about what you want, express yourself, be firm/state what you
want without being nasty, talk about things and listen, both opinions
matter, honesty, saying what you mean, being brave etc… This
is the way that all people should behave but in a violent relationship
it’s hard to be assertive. After
getting out of the relationship, you will be able to, in time, build your
confidence up and eventually be assertive because there will be no-one
putting you down all the time.
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